tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post8623540159458797188..comments2023-10-02T20:41:11.771+05:30Comments on The Random Memorandum: The Club...Expat No. 3699http://www.blogger.com/profile/13023652840187420920noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-41174221528847170132009-05-14T18:42:00.000+05:302009-05-14T18:42:00.000+05:30I'm a member! Met my husband of 18 years by hookin...I'm a member! Met my husband of 18 years by hooking up as 1) a blind date and 2) said blind date set up through my ex.<br /><br />I was hesitant - didn't know if it was for real or to get back at me.Gerthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11688552202975163754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-28639160048561813462009-05-12T01:53:00.000+05:302009-05-12T01:53:00.000+05:30I'm not affiliated with The Club, but my mom had t...I'm not affiliated with The Club, but my mom had to bite her tongue over one of my boyfriends. And it just about killed her. :)Coal Miner's Granddaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320077738770745217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-75376158629142694802009-05-09T09:20:00.000+05:302009-05-09T09:20:00.000+05:30Yes and yes. If "biting your tongue" meant litera...Yes and yes. If "biting your tongue" meant literally biting your tongue, I'd have no tongue left!<br /><br />Oh, and I was right every stinking time, and every bad thing I saw coming came. I can spot trouble within ten minutes. Really, it's two minutes, but I don't want to rush to judgment ;)Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07370267947354641941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-397975735749486202009-05-09T05:54:00.000+05:302009-05-09T05:54:00.000+05:30"Have you ever had to bite your tongue when it com..."Have you ever had to bite your tongue when it comes to the significant other of someone you care about?"<br /><br />Yes. One of my sister-in-laws. However, after 7 years, I think I am finally getting used to her.meleah rebeccahhttp://mommamiameaculpa.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-78836313146033960972009-05-08T16:04:00.000+05:302009-05-08T16:04:00.000+05:30Well, as you know I've had to keep my mouth shut f...Well, as you know I've had to keep my mouth shut for the past 18 months about my deadbeat brother in law. Nightmare.<br /><br />I'm not a member of The Club myself but it has worked out that way for several of my friends. Really successfully too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-27944836080700522022009-05-08T05:08:00.000+05:302009-05-08T05:08:00.000+05:30Not a club member. BUT I have one beloved cousin w...Not a club member. BUT I have one beloved cousin who has had a boyfriend/partner for more than 11 years. NO one in the family gets the relationship. But we've long ago backed off and let it be. He's antisocial, so we don't see him alot at family events.Moonspunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05677007691816836928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-12234142546807296332009-05-08T03:57:00.000+05:302009-05-08T03:57:00.000+05:30I'm not a member of the club - But I think it's pr...I'm not a member of the club - But I think it's pretty cool that all of you guys are.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13024392628362568010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-22843671647273856902009-05-08T02:09:00.000+05:302009-05-08T02:09:00.000+05:30Sort of a club member. My husband was my ex-husban...Sort of a club member. My husband was my ex-husband's best man at our wedding, but I didn't meet him through my ex. I actually met my ex through my current husband, I just married the wrong one first.Aunt Juiceboxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09312942310632639442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-4854046420712429602009-05-07T21:03:00.000+05:302009-05-07T21:03:00.000+05:30You are one smart mama! The Universe works in mys...You are one smart mama! The Universe works in mysterious ways, doesn't it?Mental P Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05957544840704376193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-64189928702990768562009-05-07T20:31:00.000+05:302009-05-07T20:31:00.000+05:30My brothers wife - now ex wife - it was difficult ...My brothers wife - now ex wife - it was difficult she was difficult it made me difficult - but now that she is the ex - it seems do-able, even with the nephews it is all very do-able now... strange... I fear that my boys pick girls I will not be able to reach - how hard that will be, because well keeping my mouth shut is so hard for me!Wait. What?https://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-35084060149215941692009-05-07T19:53:00.000+05:302009-05-07T19:53:00.000+05:30Nope, not a club member. I tihnk I'd actually hav...Nope, not a club member. I tihnk I'd actually have to start DATING to get into that club LOL.<br /><br />Having said that, I DID 'get together' with one of the EX's best friends after we first split up.<br /><br />And ... another one of his friends recently split with his wife, and called me LOL.<br /><br />So, no, not a 'member', just a preferred guest every now and then ;-)Kim's Kornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12693166504226008907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-50309538078304835872009-05-07T17:12:00.000+05:302009-05-07T17:12:00.000+05:30I'm not a member of The Club, but I do wish that m...I'm not a member of The Club, but I do wish that my family had spoken up about a certain girl I had dated before I let her trample over me.Badass Geekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01030944236271663794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4522731770475871317.post-3223841932052838342009-05-07T16:51:00.000+05:302009-05-07T16:51:00.000+05:30Oh YES!!!! Our daughter dated (and was eventually ...Oh YES!!!! Our daughter dated (and was eventually engaged) to a guy we now call Butthead. He was an emotional abuser but we didn't know that at the time. My husband's guy-to-guy radar was pegged with this guy and he lived with us for a summer. Grrrrr. It was living hell. Finally our daughter Erin (www.the-looney-bin.blogspot.com), living near Philadelphia, gave us and we went to rescue her one fateful December day in 1999. Horrible. We had kept our tongues and it all worked out but it was a terrible episode. Glad your son survived. Sadly, we're not directly members of the Club.Bama Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05724086696721738499noreply@blogger.com